The Ideal Woman   Reply to topic

Hello Folks

Just sitting here, thinking back over the weekend. First, hope all had a good one, time to recharge, get out, have a little fun. Something that makes a good weekend good. Something that brings a smile to the face when starting a new week. And for those that have those crazy work schedules like mine, hope your weekend was kind and now you get a little time to relax.

But yes, thinking back over some conversations I had this weekend. And the thoughts they fueled.

If someone was to ask me what is the ideal woman, how would I respond? Okay, little self centered in a way, but it does make you think. If that little genie popped up and said I could get the ideal woman what would she be like?

Well, me being a guy and all, I think the first thing I would do is pull up PV and look at the smorgasbord of fine, beautiful ladies here. Sort of pick and choose, a little of this, a little of that, and a whole lot of .....oh, never mind. But you know, after a while of looking, extensive research, and a lot of strolling, I would find myself really confused. Big ones here are nice, but those little ones are fantastic. Blond is nice, but wow, that red head. And those brown eyes, ahhhhh, but then again those blue are heaven. So what is a guy to do when given such a task as this?

Then I thought about it, really thought. Lmao, took me several days in fact, not the fastest thinker here.

Then it really hit me. In my eyes, the ideal woman is one that makes me happy. Someone that brings a smile to my face.

You see, if she can make me happy, she brings with it a whole host of things. A unique beauty all her own, not a little of this or that. She has intelligence, someone you can talk to for hours while seeming like minutes. Someone you can open up with, share both your thoughts, dreams, and even sadness and fears. A trust, a bond. She'd have the ability to even make me laugh. Laugh at silly things, at myself, and most of all, life.

You see, when I think about that lady, that one that possesses all that, and she wants to spend time with me, be with me...................that is where the happiness comes in.

Knowing she chose me.

So going back to that Genie in the Bottle, I hope he does give me three wishes. One, for all my friends here at PV, so they can find that special someone that makes them happy. One for the world, to have eyes opened and realize, we are all trying to get through life, lets not make it difficult on one another, and well a little selfish here, will keep the last one for me. Think you can guess what it is for.

: )

All have a good one and Take Care

Very true jahoo. I agree and know someone exactly like that

hahaha too funny

My Ideal woman passed away several months ago, but I will use her as an example.. from the very start it was a 50/50 relationship.. she paid for a date one time, I paid for the next one, and it was her Idea at the beginning. She also let me be a man, never tried to control me, I also let her be a woman. She told me it was alright to look at the pretty women, just not to touch, a man will look. She had male friends before we met, still had them when she passed. I never got jealous of her for that. I became the best husband in the world she said. So yes she set a high standard, but to me she will always be the Ideal Woman...

Thank You Single, very nice.

Good post jahoo.....and i agree. My ideal woman is someone who can make me laugh louder than i though possible, cry harder than i ever wanted too, love like there is no tomorrow. Someone who excepts me for all my imperfections and loves all the little details that make me, me.
Reminds me of a verse from a song...bare with me

I want somebody to share
share the rest of my life
share my inner most thoughts
know my intimate details
someone who'll stand by my side
and give support
and in return, she'll get my support
She will listen to me when i want to speak
about the world we live in and life in general
Though my views may be wrong,
They may even be perverted
She'll hear me out
and wont easily be converted
To my way of thinking
In fact she'll often disagree
But at the end of it all
She will understand me

there is more...and it really does sum up a perfect women for me...just someone who care for me as much as i do them and makes me see the world in a whole new light.

sorry for the long post...now let the jokes begin...lol

lol face...not at all

And when you lose the Ideal woman to any circumstance, the heart will never be the same... they are a rare find... keep lookin carson, it took me 25 years to find mine.

Um...NO.

Sorry jahoo....think my singing may have killed your post. My bad bud