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Why is it so hard to get Admin to remove members profiles from here that have passed away, they leave them up, and makes people feel bad still seeing their profile page.. txsweet is one, bgmimi is another, is there no more compassion anymore ??

"Dead Members"? That's what you are titling this thread? Single, you are asking for compassion but not giving it. Perhaps "members no longer with us", I don't know, just kinda seemed harsh to me. I'm sure you didn't mean it that way but probably not a great choice of words. Also, it's the same on fb and such. How could they possibly know who has passed on? Some might look at it as their memory living on. I guess it's all just a matter of opinion how one perceives something like this. I don't think there's a right or wrong answer. Just try and cherish the ones you've enjoyed and miss, thats what really matters.

Only reason i titled it like that was so ppls would pay attention to it, i was being compassionate.. i've had 3 good friends that have passed in here, none that you knew. Txsweet, Anglica, and now bgmimi. txsweet was a good and loving woman, 4 year after she passed her profile still up and now bgmimi.. makes no sense. To me thats being disrespectful

JUST MY OPINION

I don’t see leaving the profiles up as disrespectful at all. Everyone has their own way of dealing with things. Maybe it brings some comfort to people, to be able to look at them and like pink said, keep the memory alive.

If someone passes away that you know personally, do you go through and remove every picture or anything that ever reminded you of them? For some, these profiles might be all they have.

Nooooooooooo lol. I would never

The reason I did this was a couple people in chat room asked me why do they leave peoples profiles still up after they have passed away. One person was close to someone and they found it hurtful that the profile was still on. Me personally knew txsweet, she passed away maybe 5 years ago. We were good friends. Profile still up. I will never forget her, roadtrip8000, anglica. They will always be lovingly thought of, never forgotten. Seeing their profile just brings memories of their passing..

Maybe don’t go looking for the profile? It’s the only way you will see them. Not trying to be mean, but not everyone feels the same way as you do. And also like pink said, admin doesn’t know for sure some of these people have passed on. I knew most of these people too and have chatted with them, they were good people, but do I think the profiles should be taken down? Absolutely not.

Okkk, not gonna argue about it, was just a question of inquiry i was having.. like i said it was feedback from other people is all, ty for the feedback babyss...

Hiya Singleman honey, I hope that you are ok x .. yes I remember speaking to a couple of those lovely ladies in chat that you are referring too and also some of the lovely comments from the reviews that they gave on contri's. I do also recall that there was some bad feelings by some members a few years a go, when after one or two of them had sadly passed, the admin received criticism for removing their profile info (as is in their pictures etc.) .. So they started to leave them untouched so as to not cause any more bad feelings to the other members that they had become good friends with.. I guess that admin are in a bit of a no win situation over this one, as some people would like to see the profiles still there for the fond memories and some don't want to because of the hurt of the loss of those friends :( xxx

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