A husband and wife siting at the dinner table with their three kids. during their meal the husband touches his wife under the table and asks" do you want to do the washing tonight?" now this is their code for sex cause they dont want to influence the children. The wife relies "No sorry ive got a headahe". After dinner and hour or so later he asked again" hey dear what about the washing?" her reply was still the same. During the middle of night while husband and wife were both in bed the wife rolls over and wakes her husband up and said " I cant sleep how about that washing?" the husband replies half asleep with" nah its ok I only had half a load so i done it by hand."